The essentials for a successful session | children and family photography
What are five essential ingredients for a successful portrait session?
Obviously, good light is critical –but the child being photographed should have a comfort level and a trust built with the photographer. This is why it’s so difficult to get a really good portrait at a “1-2-3 say cheese!” kind of portrait session you’re likely to get at the mall, or from a hit-and-run photo at school. Getting a family ready for portraits is a big project –and Moms usually get the worst of it. A child will definitely pick up on those stress vibes if you throw everyone in the car at the last moment. So, like most things, it will pay off if you’re able to plan ahead.
Here are some suggestions for preparing your child:
1. Start talking about it in advance. “What should we wear for our pictures this year?” or “let’s pick our favorite shirt –because we get to go to the photo studio next week” “Should we get a new haircut? We want to look good for our pictures! It’s going to be so much fun!” In other words, let your child know you’re anticipating an important appointment and involve him/her in the planning.
2. Set it up to be fun! If you hate being photographed, then you haven’t been to my studio. It’s not a chore, it’s a fun annual family event – like picking out a Christmas tree, or carving the pumpkin. If you’re truly uncomfortable, don’t share your fear with the kids. From the minute a family walks in my door, I’m learning names, making jokes and sizing up everyone’s comfort level. We simply don’t give in to bad moods around here. Show up in a bad mood and I’ll make it my mission to tease you out of it!
3. Dads. Okay they’re the ones that want to hate me the most. I make them SIT and SMILE when they’d rather be at home –AND I cost them money. It’s a dangerous combination for me. But over and over, I see how much their family portraits mean to them –and how they display them with pride. Whether it’s a cell phone or the wall above the fireplace, they make room for what I do and love it. I’ve had Dads show up complaining loudly about how much I charge and then come to the order session and want to buy one of everything. So the best plan is to schedule with them way in advance and remind them it’s only one hour out of their year.
4. Make the photographer your partner. Send me clues! Tell me (I’m fluent in parent code) “Johnny just lost a tooth!” or “Look at Sarah’s new haircut” or even “somebody wouldn’t brush his teeth for us this morning and didn’t get a snack!” Anything that is front and center in their minds needs to be on my radar. I can tease them, joke with them or even commiserate — but it helps to know.
5. Make an idea list. Have a few ideas or make note of a few things by scanning the website before you arrive. We can put our heads together and come up with a plan. Things change a lot in a portrait studio from one year to the next. New sets, new props, new ideas – we like to keep it fresh! If you have questions about how to dress, just ask –we can help with that, too!
The biggest payoff for me is when I hear a child ask Mom or Dad “when can we come back here?” or “I like it here!” …and sometimes I even get a hug.













